Shirley and Family, Our thoughts and Prayers are with you all. Warm consoling hugs. Know that we are thinking of you and that we love you. hugs, Jo Immortality Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep. I am the thousand winds that blow, I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight ripened grain, I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awake in the mornings hush, I am the swift uplifting rush, of quiet birds in circling flight. I am the soft starshine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there, I did not die. anonymous